I have family in Japan that I visit every 3 or 4 years. Whenever I visit, I have a decent time, but I don't really get to meet new people.
Before I go on, let me tell you a little about myself; I'm 29 years old, I'm half Japanese and half American, and I've lived 98% of my life in the U.S. (I went to an international school near Osaka briefly in the second grade). Right now I live in Los Angeles and I work in the television industry and occasionally as a DJ in clubs around town. My Japanese is so-so, but my English is superb ;)
I'm not looking for anyone to entertain me for a week or anything like that, but if you could spare an hour or two to meet up for coffee or lunch or drinks or dinner, that would be great. Basically, any excuse to get out for a while and meet new people would be nice. If you like movies and music, we should have plenty to talk about.
I realize this is perhaps an odd request, but I'm curious to see if this little experiment works...I can't really offer much beyond decent conversation, and maybe if you ever visit LA, I can return the favor.
So, my ad again:
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I know hundreds of guys post here and chances of finding anyone are slim but let's try anyway.
I'm a white guy, good looking I reckon, medium/slim build, average height, who enjoys the company of women who like dressing sexy.
I'm not looking for my wife or life-lover but my mind is not closed to the possibility.
I am looking for a girl, any nationality, who is willing to just have fun, a few drinks, go dancing, enjoy life, take in Tokyo together.
I like the confidence women seem to project when they dress sexy. I like guys to notice you.
You think guys like me that fuck the natives is bad for Japan? At least an argument could be made that I am helping the population problem here, but isn't the case because I use condoms. You on the other hand, go to their schools to teach English with your nerdy little ass and fit the Gaijin mold these heathens have made, plus taken on reading Manga, wearing shit in Harajuku that shouldn't even be worn on Halloween, all the while trying to fit in and believing that if you JUST. TRY. HARD. ENOUGH, you will be accepted. Little do you know that they are laughing their asses off behind your back at you trying to fit in. With this in mind, you think I am worse for Japan than you are? HAHAHAHAHA. At least I am not seen as a spineless silly looking coward who is trying to BE Japanese. When they see me, they don't think they can shape me into the mold you so easily fit. Usually, the males just avoid me which is great because I think the majority of them read too much manga and play too much Playstation. But the females.... Ahhhhhh. Last night... she came up from Fukuoka on business for her father's company. She ate Fois gras in Ginza and I ate her..... That one, she's a hot little filly.
Sorry about that, I won't go on and rub it in.
I have a question, How do you know that the initial post was written by a gaijin troll? Is it because YOU are the troll who wrote it? Or do you personally know the troll and toss each others salad from time to time? Or, do you know because you spend that much time on the internet and can sniff a troll out in 1 post? If so, I understand your anger. What you really need to do is fine-tune your nose to sniff out something else.
Put down the Playstation and slowly back away. Get off the fucking internet and find out what is out there in this fucked up but fun as hell country. Yes, you are correct that I didn't pick up that the "racist Japanese" was a gaijin. It's because I don't spend countless hours online and know the rules and techniques for trolling that you seem to have etched in your head. I hope to God you don't pose as a Japanese female to get your jollies online as well.
BTW, you crossed thousands of miles of Pacific Ocean to be able to learn the intricacies of trolling online? Fucking Pathetic HAHAHAHAHA. Why don't you just do that from Idaho and let us men show the Japanese that we are not all conforming pansies?
Why not send me an e-mail. You won't feel any pressure when you're with me, we'll just have a nice relaxed talk and enjoy each other's company on a Saturday night.
Maybe we won't meet again, maybe we will. Why not, it's nice to meet new people and talk...
What I am looking for in a right man is honesty, inspiration, and
willingness to grow together as a couple. Even with idiosyncrasies,
someone who is open enough to accept one another and who knows how to
communicate himself to his woman when needed. Please be well traveled
and have a good sense of humor.
You do not have to be Harvard graduate, but I would expect him to
have a common sense and basic knowledge of what is going on in the
world... If you love dogs and are romantic, that will be a a huge
plus.
I am easy-going, romantic, honest, and travel/outdoor/books & movies
lover, and an occasional shopaholic. Also, I love to cook delicious
food with loved ones.
Good looks never hurt, but I am more interested in knowing who he is
on the inside.
Serious reply only please. I would like to get to know you first,
exchanging emails or having talks on the phone, then if we click,
let's meet. If you are interested, please email me with something
about yourself, instead of being a one-liner.
About me: Some of the what I'm into are the music(love to listen to R&B, neo soul), going out(go to a networking event to meet new people), exercise(I'm trying to get back in shape), reading(Haruki Murakami).
Please. Getting laid is easy anywhere, big dick, little dick, medium dick... it's all about how you carry yourself, with a dash of good looks and style always helping your case. But in Japan, it's surely the rock star treatment, as the OP pointed out, and the ease of doing something like, oh, say, cumming on a face. I've done it back home, and lets just say it wasn't really appreciated. But for some reason, most Japanese girls I've been with not only EXPECT a nice warm shot of baby batter on the chinny chin chin, they smile and bat their eyes as it pools in their dimples.
But, I digress...
What I wanted to point out that the rebuttal involved a "I bet you're AMERICAN." Coming from another American.
As if Americans don't get shit talked by every Aussie, Kiwi, Canadian, and British guy at every bar for the same bullshit stereotypes that Sacha Baron Cohen so brilliantly played on... you gotta go and be one of them SELF-HATING Americans... Our country is full of problems, the whole world knows this... picking on it is as cliche as a Hello Kitty keitai charm.
Go get fucked, you piece of shit. Rather, don't get fucked, don't get married, and don't procreate. The South is embarrassing enough without losers like you hating on the Stars and Stripes abroad.
A big electronic high five to the wife fucker. Do your thang.
let's break up the monotony a bit
with a high quality + low maintenance steamy distraction of sorts.
I'm definitely not searching for something run-of-the-mill
and I hope you aren't either.
now here's the crucial part, we must like each other as friends!
it's just not going to work without some sort of connection outside the "benefits" portion.
let's spend the majority of our time engaged in hot physical encounters
and then once in a while mix it up with a wholesome activity too.
ideally, you're like me and simply wanting a pleasant ongoing diversion that's not overly time consuming.
We live in a highly suppressed society
where the norm is not to approach a woman or a girl or vice versa..
many a times our animal instinct takes over our senses when we see a gorgeous hunk or woman
but we hold ourselves back due to the general depressing trend here.
So,here I am being as blunt and bold as possible,
calling women who are straightforward, intelligent, knows what she wants, and have a high drive,
someone who wants/demands a real man in bed, someone who can satisfy the needs wants and urges
Let's face it. You and me are on the personals section of craigslist.
I am confident in bed and am looking for women who don't necessarily seek commitments but need just a good old fashioned shag.
Please write to me in confidence and I promise you that you wont be disappointed.
looking for a decent looking girl with proportion and in decent shape.
im not ripped or anything, but you won't be dissappointed, so i expect you to be alright.
im in pretty fit shape.
id like you to be open minded, into trying things, stuff like that you know.
not afraid to give some head or get your kitty wet.
Threesomes a plus.
Definitely good in bed,
not selfish when it comes to making sure your satisfied.
love foreplay, and i'm open to anything you might want to do, with a few boundaries.
anyways, i need to be discreet so no pictures in the ad,
but i do have them, but i have to see yours first, just so i can make sure we dont know each other.
other than that, no real preferences, except the usual, you know, no psycho bitches,
unless your just a psycho in bed in which thats a plus.
no diseases, im clean and dont want anyone else getting them from you either.
drugs are ok for the most part, i dont really do any,
love to experiment.
I'm sure that this stat has nothing to do with Foreigners and everything to do with insecure little man-boys... need more evidence, try looking at the number of child death cause by parents incapable of empathizing with their children This month from Japan Today
"Mami Yoshida, the 26-year-old mother of the boy, Tomoki, told investigators that she had violently taken out her frustration with her husband on their son because he looked like her husband Hiroshi"
"A 22-year-old man under arrest has admitted to killing his 6-month-old son, wife and mother-in-law in the city of Miyazaki,"
"Police arrested a couple in Warabi, Saitama Prefecture, on Thursday on suspicion of failing to provide sufficient food for their son who eventually became weak and died in February 2008."
"A 20-year-old woman was arrested for attempted murder on Monday, after she allegedly tried to strangle her 1-year-old daughter to death at their apartment in Tsuchiura City, Ibaraki"
Maybe it's time to stop all the boo-hoo, don't pick on Japan and if you don't like Japan get out bull s***, and start looking at what is wrong with your society.
You really should have read my whole post, because only a small part of it addressed fucking other men's wives. And, you would have learned a thing or two about real sarcasm.
FYI, I am an American (so there is no hypocrisy when I call it as I see it). Your blatant contempt for the British is truly pathetic and embarrassing. I am a bachelor and have never been married. And, I am perfectly comfortable with myself. The only one who seems to have something to prove is you, my friend.
But just in case, I guess you don't recognize sarcasm very well. But that is a very touching post, what I read of it at least. As soon as I saw that you didn't get it, I quit reading and began skimming. Nice try though. Let me guess, you are a Brit. And here I was thinking you snobby fucks had a sense of humor or at least be intelligent enough to recognize sarcasm. My bad. I won't make the same mistake again. I will spell everything out really nice and easy for you.
So, since you didn't get it the first time, I'll inform you that post was written to piss off a racist Japanese. It's my way of twisting the knife into someone who's views are severely dated. Just because your marriage was wrecked by you being unable to satisfy your "Hotwife" doesn't mean that you should lose your sense of humor or your ability to detect sarcasm. Learn from it and do something better with your life than frequenting online sites to vent your inadequacies. You may have the Whale Activist fooled, but not me.
You should be proud, picking all that low-hanging fruit must be really hard work, what with your busy schedule teaching English conversation and all.
Nothing says "MAN" more than someone who would fuck another guy's wife and then brag about it. Maybe you can really show off and ruin a few marriages? Or break up a few families? That would prove your STUD status. And I am sure you would be responsible for any havoc you wreak, right? Like spreading whatever STD you have/catch from banging sluts to someone's wife/mother? Nope. You are a typical American, with your obsession with quantity over quality. Use use use. Waste waste waste. Not to mention your attitude, which clearly shows that you think you are superior to these lowly Asian men and that naturally all Asian women want your dick, simply because you are a white American. You are really going the extra mile to prove to something to yourself, aren't you? How sad.
Preying on sexually repressed/frustrated women with low self-esteem and no self-worth is really a conquest to you, isn't it? Here's a news flash for you King Dong, getting laid in Japan is about as easy as blowing a stinky fart after eating a spicy taco dinner. Guess who gets more pussy in Japan than you and your latent-homo friend? Japanese guys! Do the math Einstein, 99% of Japanese women couple up with Japanese men. And remember: the Japanese have been engaging in kinky sex with SM ropes since way back before even your mama was born, so stop acting like you invented that shit, homey.
I am interested in meeting thoughtful people to have meaningful conversations with. Someone that has a different point of view and wants to share it. Someone who is genuinely interested in something other than themselves.
You can be of any race or ethnicity. However, I am agnostic and prefer that you be atheist or agnostic as well. You must be between the ages of 18 and 30.
I would like you to be able to speak English fluently. It is hard to have a meaningful conversation otherwise. I can speak some Japanese, but my Japanese speaking ability is far from fluent or useful.
I will send you a picture of myself if you send me yours.
Y'all worried 'bout the "graying of Japan" so y'all try to relax your immigration regulations to allow gaijin in de damn country, den y'all be all tellin' us to leave and shit. Worst still, y'all bring in tasty young Chinese bitches and hearty Philippines workers, snatch dey passports, pay them shit wages and den boot dey ass out de country. Y'all musta forgot dat y'all lost WWII! You can't be treatin' yo neighbors like dat. Ain't y'all heard? Payback be a bitch!!
I'd be happy to discuss dis with any of y'all h8az, jes come down an see me at my sidewalk jewelry stand, I be in Roppongi tonight, Shibuya tomorrow and Kichijoji on Sat. & Sun.
I am a kind-hearted and friendly person with many interests, among them outoors/nature, water and the beach, cooking and dining, building things, reading and learning, travel, and volunteering. Unfortunately I do not speak any Japanese (although I would like to learn), so I understand that this may limit who I can talk with. But maybe there is somebody reading who might want to practice English, or who is already good at English and just interested in chatting about our different countries and cultures.
If you write back, please tell me a bit about yourself, particularly your likes and interests. I am happy to hear from anybody who is kind of heart. I am particularly interested to hear from people who live in the country-side or suburbs, and commute into Tokyo: I find it amazing that the metro system there can efficiently move 35 million people!!
There is nothing at all difficult or troubling or frustrating about living in Japon! You must not understand anything about this fantastic culture and wonderful perfect society. Because you are gaijin and not as smart as Japonese!